Since times immemorial, men have been competing for lovers. Way back before we evolved to our current level, the process of attracting a mate both suitable and desirable may have been somewhat different to the one we’re accustomed to now in the 21st century. Presently, intersex relationships seem as though they function on a level of assurance and emotion as opposed to raw animal instinct, for that reason it may be important that you commit the following sternly to memory.
10. Become the Best Man You Can Be
If you want to succeed with women, you need to master the art of self-improvement. Most men want to have more — or better — women in their lives. However, they don’t know how to make it happen. Many men think it takes movie-star looks and rock-star money to attract desirable women, the sad truth of this being however that most just simply have no clue how to beckon such women. It’s not pickup lines or fancy clothes or losing a few pounds, if you really want to get an attractive woman to notice you, take the time to develop something unique and interesting about yourself. Who you really are on the inside plays a bigger role in your dating life than any superficial fixes. Showing a woman that you’re a gentleman is a powerful way to stand out from the crowd, and the smallest gestures go a very long way. Open a door for her and pull out a chair. Make sure you walk on the outside of the sidewalk. Put your hand on the small of her back when walking into a restaurant or across the street. You won’t believe how quickly these small things set you apart from 99% of other men.
9. Don’t be a Desperate
Women dismiss a fair amount of prospective males on the grounds of ‘being creepy’, so it’s obviously important that you avoid such categorization at all costs. Championship coaches tell their winning players, “act like you’ve been here before”, and that’s exactly what you need to do with women. The best way to lose a woman you have a lot of interest in is to get possessive, desperate and start calling her 10 times a day, no matter how natural it may seem. Strive simply to accept things the way they are, respect woman, their space and their right to their own thoughts and feelings. Once you do, you’ll have the power to redirect things as you move into the future.
8. Be a Little Feisty
Feisty men are those who refuse to let women take control of them. Women like what they can’t have easily, and having a little bit of a feisty attitude may help. Of course you’ve got to gauge the patience and nature of the respective woman first of all, as there are unfortunately those who prefer the opposite in their men. You may like her and want nothing more than a retort of such feeling, however unless you give her space she may never be interested. Your feisty-ness should in turn also be confined somewhat, as too much of it can understandably become irritating. You know the expression about absence making the heart grow fonder? Well, it’s true. So make her miss you: let her wonder where you are, whom you’re with and where you’re going, and she will hope to cross paths with you more often than you think.
7. Use “Little Things” to Woo Her
There are a ton of “little things” that women look for to help them make big decisions about what kind of man you are. They instantly tell women whether or not you are worthy of a second thought. Maintaining eye contact, strong posture, not fidgeting; all of these are aspects worth deep and careful consideration. To make matters more complicated, women tend to make these decisions on a subconscious level. They don’t look at a man then say to a friend- “well, he maintained eye contact when I first looked at him, then he held his head up high in a dominant posture, so, I’m going to give him a chance.” Practice these simple steps and a woman will naturally want to spend more time with you.
6. Sound Smart and Take Initiative
Don’t be afraid to make a move on her. You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to sound smart. Creativity plus stuff you already know can create a powerful attraction with woman. Imagine how you’d come across if you were the most confident guy on the planet. You’d seem so in control that you’d be in no rush. You don’t need to make it a big deal or even call it a date. Just ask her if she wants to go get some lunch or a coffee and get to know her. Even if you know just enough about her to merely start a conversation, use it in your approach and you’ll sound smart. Relate it to her (“did you know the indirect lighting in here makes your eyes look even bluer?”) and she’ll be hooked, guaranteed.